UAlexis Neiers uphonononge 'uLindsay,' uLindsay Lohan's Reality Show kwi-OWN

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Eli bali lingaphezulu kweminyaka emi-5 ubudala.

Iziyobisi 'ILindsay' imalunga nokwenziwa esidlangalaleni, hayi uhambo lomlutha ukuya kubungcathu.
  • Ifoto ngoncedo lwe-OWN: Oprah Winfrey Network

    Ndiyazi ukuba ndiza kungena eLindsay Lohan ngexesha lakhe lokugqibela lokuhlaziya. Sobabini sazola kwindawo enye eMalibu, kwaye iMalibu yidolophu encinci kakhulu. Kodwa xa ndabaleka ndaya eLindsay kwihlobo elidlulileyo, ndothuka.

    KwakungoMvulo ebusuku, kwaye ndandikudinga kakhulu ukubuyela empilweni. UHarper, intombi yam, wayeneminyaka nje emalunga neenyanga ezintandathu ubudala, kwaye ndandingekaphumi endlwini yam kwinto eyayiziva ngathi ziiveki. ULindsay wasibona, weza kum, emva koko waguqa phambi kukaHarper, wolula isandla sakhe ukuba abambe usana lwam oluncinci. Mna noLindsay satshitshana ngokufutshane, emva koko wahlala phantsi. Wayebonakala ahlukile kwintombazana endandisandul 'ukuyibona kumajelo eendaba: Ulusu lwakhe lwalukhazimla, ilizwi lakhe livakala licacile, namehlo akhe amhlophe eqaqambile.



    Wowu! Ndicinge. Oko kwakumnandi ngokwenene.

    Ndinezizathu zokulindela ukuba incoko yethu ihambe intlekele. Mna noLindsay sasisebenze kunye eLynwood Correctional Facility ngaphambi kokuba ndifumane ubunyulu kwiminyaka emithathu edlulileyo. Ukuphuma kwam entolongweni kwangethuba ngenxa yengxinano, ndandiswele imali. Ndachitha yonke imali endandiyigcinile ndisebenzisa iziyobisi, ndandingenandlela yakuzixhasa. Ijelo likamabonwakude landinika udliwanondlebe lwasemva kokuvalelwa olwaluza kundibhatalela imali efanelekileyo. Ngelo xesha, ndandineendlela ezimbini zokuhlawula amatyala am kunye nokuthenga iziyobisi: ukuthengisa izinto zam okanye ukuthengisa umphefumlo wam. Ndithathe isigqibo sokwenza le yokugqibela, ndiyintombazana ekhohlakeleyo, kwaye ndiyavuma ukuthetha nge-Lindsay nge $ 20,000.

    Emva kokuba ndiphaphile kwaye ndiqala ukufunda ngesifo sam, ndaziva ndibuhlungu ngokuvuma ukwenza olo dliwanondlebe. Ndiye ndaqonda ukuba andinawo amandla okubona impembelelo yam kwabanye abantu xa ndisebenzisa-le yenye yeempawu ezininzi zotywala-ngoko ke ndasebenza amanyathelo am. Mna wenze izilungiso kubahlobo nakumalungu osapho endandibuhlungu, kwaye ndavolontiya nabafazi ekuhlaleni. Ndandifuna ukuxolisa kuLindsay, kodwa andizange ndidibane naye, kwaye ukudibana kwethu okufutshane eMalibu kwakungeloxesha elifanelekileyo lokuba ndixolise-ukuxolisa okwenyani phakathi kwamantombazana amabini kunqabile ukuba kwenziwe esidlangalaleni.

    Xa i-OWN ibhengeze ukuba babenjalo Ukuhlawula iLindsay i-2 yezigidi zeedola ukwenza inkwenkwezi ngaphakathi ULindsay , uthotho lwe-docu (funda: iklasi yokwenyani yokubonisa) malunga nemizamo kaLindsay yokuhlala ethe qwa emva kokuvuselelwa, ndamgxotha. Wayekhangeleka esempilweni eMalibu, kwaye u-Oprah Winfrey wayedume ngokunceda abantu abanengxaki Umboniso weOprah Winfrey . Ndacinga ukuba uWinfrey uza kukhokela uLindsay kuhambo lwakhe oluya kubomi obunempilo.

    Ngelishwa, ULindsay ibinayo nantoni na ngaphandle komboniso wokuzinceda. Kwiziqendu ezimbalwa zokuqala, uLindsay wasuka eCalifornia waya eNew York. (Ngaba umntu oqhelekileyo angafuna iikhamera ebusweni babo ngelixa esenza le nto? Ngubani othanda ukuhamba?) Kwisiqendu sokuqala, wayehleli kwigumbi lehotele eligutyungelwe ziimpahla, ngokutshaya imidiza, ekhathazeka ngemali, kwaye ebiza iarhente yokuthengisa izindlu nomhlaba ukuba ibuze. ukuba wayevunyiwe ukuba aqeshe indlu. Ephakathi kwesiqendu, uLindsay wenyusa iringi ebling kwaye wathetha ngam. Ndicinga ukuba abavelisi bamcelile ukuba akhankanye ubusela kuba befuna ukuvusa idrama ukwenza ukuba isiqendu sokuqala sibenomdla ngakumbi, okanye uLindsay wayesenomsindo kum-endingawuqonda. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, bendithetha ngaye kwi-TV yesizwe.

    Kwiiveki ezimbalwa ezizayo, bendisokola ukubukela umboniso, hayi ngezizathu ezifanayo nezenziweyo ababukeli abaninzi bayayeka ukubukela umboniso , kodwa ngenxa yokuba uLindsay wandikhumbuza ngesiqu sam — bendihleli ndisoyika ukungazinzi kwezezimali kwaye ndivumile ukuthengisa umphefumlo wam endaweni yokuthengisa izinto zam. Kodwa ubukhulu becala andikonwabanga ukubukela indlela uWinfrey athethe ngayo noLindsay. Ndiyazi ukuba uWinfrey ukhule enengxaki enkulu, kodwa asinakuba sonke nguWinfrey, nokuba yeyiphi na imiba O, Imagazini yeOprah Winfrey sifunda okanye zingaphi izinto azithandayo esizithengayo. Ndacinga ukuba uWinfrey ubuncinci uza kuba ngummeli olungileyo kaLindsay-umama ozinzileyo ngokweemvakalelo uLindsay ongazange abenaye. Endaweni yokuba uWinfrey abe njengalo naliphi na elinye inqanaba lomama, umzali obandayo, nongusomathuba ozama ukwenza intombazana encinci.

    UWinfrey wothuka xa uLindsay waziphatha gwenxa. Kwasekuqaleni kolu ngcelele, uLindsay waqala ukubonakalisa kade kwaye warhoxisa amahlumela kunye nabasebenzi benkqubo-mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba wayefuna ukubuyela umva kuyo yonke le nto, eyayiqondakala. UWinfrey, abasebenzi, kunye nomncedisi kaLindsay bayakucaphukisa uLindsay ngokungathi ngabazali abanomsindo. Ngaba ndim ndedwa owayengothuswa kukuziphatha kukaLindsay? UWinfrey uhlawule uLindsay ukuba avele kumboniso wokwenyani kwiintsuku ezimbalwa emva kokuba emkile kwimo yesiqhelo. Ngaba udibene nezilonda emva kokushiya i-rehab? Zisemngciphekweni kwaye ziluhlaza. Kutheni le nto ungabeka ikhamera phambi kwabo, kungasathethwa ke ukuba balindele ukuba beze ngexesha?

    Ukanti kwisiqendu sesithathu, uWinfrey wabhabhela edolophini ukuya kohlwaya iprojekthi yakhe yezilwanyana zasekhaya, uLindsay, kwaye wayinyanzela ukuba iphumelele, ngelixa wayemmisela ukuba asilele. I-cameraman yadubula uWinfrey ukusuka ezantsi, njengoko uWinfrey wayehamba ngenqwelo mafutha esiya endlwini kaDina esiya kubona uLindsay, egxininisa ukwazi kukaWinfrey. Xa uWinfrey ehleli phantsi noLindsay, woyikisa ngokutsala iplagi kumdlalo. Intetho enkonkxiweyo ka-Big O malunga nendlela amile ngayo uLindsay evuza ukunganyaniseki. ULindsay wayekhe wambiza kanobom ngokubonisa ubunyani ngexesha lomboniso, ndaye ndaqala ukuzibuza ukuba uWinfrey uwuchaze lo mboniso njenge-docu-series kuLindsay ukuze amqinisekise ukuba avele kwi-OWN. Ngokucacileyo uWinfrey & apos; s ndlongondlongo, indlela yokubonisa yayilwandisile uxinzelelo kuLindsay, kodwa uWinfrey wabonakala engayazi kwaphela indima ayidlalayo, ukuba wayedlala ngobomi bentombazana ekhathazekileyo. Kwisiqendu sesihlanu, uLindsay uvumile ukubuyela umva.

    Phakathi kwesi siphithiphithi, uCliffside Malibu, iziko lonyango uLindsay waya kulo, wenza iintengiso ezininzi kwi-OWN. Kodwa yintoni enye esinokuyilindela? Yonke into malunga nalo mboniso, ukusuka kumxholo wayo ukuya kubathengisi bayo, yayiyinyuselo enyulu kunye nokuxhaphaza. ULindsay wayeqhekekile kwaye esokola ukusindisa umsebenzi wakhe. Wayefuna i-2 yezigidi zeedola kwaye edibanisa igama lakhe elonakeleyo kunye negama likaWinfrey elihlonitshwayo, kwaye uWinfrey wayedinga uLindsay ukugcina ijelo lakhe elaziwa ngumntu wonke ukuba liyasilela. (Unayo nini ngonaphakade ubukele OWN?)

    Xa umboniso uthe gqi, bekungamangalisi ukubukela OWN ngokungathandabuzekiyo belahla uLindsay, ebhengeza kule veki ukuba bezingayi kuhlaziya umboniso ixesha lesibini. Kodwa lo mboniso wawungazange ubonise ukubuyiswa kukaLindsay. ULindsay yayingumthambo osulungekileyo uvuyo olubi -Uthatha uvuyo kwilishwa kunye nokubandezeleka kwabanye-kwaye sonke & apos sonke sinetyala. ULindsay wayefanele asilele, kwaye yile nto sasiyifuna sonke. Ndingaba ndiyaxoka ukuba ndingathi inxenye yam yayingakhange ijonge ukwaphuka koololiwe. (Kwaye & iapos; ndiyaziwa ngokuba yinqanaba elidumileyo loololiwe ngokwam.) Kuyaphambana ukuba nabani na ucinga ULindsay yayizakubuyela kwimeko yesiqhelo, hayi idabi lokufa. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, sisiphi isigqibo esisengqiqweni senkqubo kamabonakude eyiyo? Ukubulawa esidlangalaleni.

    Ukufumana kwakhona, ngombulelo, yinto echaseneyo nokwenziwa esidlangalaleni. Into endiyifundileyo ngabafazi ekubuyiseni kufuneka baxhasane, bangadilizana. Sabelana ngezidingo eziqhelekileyo zokuba likhoboka lisibeke kuthi, njengokungakwazi ukujongana neziganeko eziqhelekileyo zoxinzelelo, njengokuhamba, nokunyanzelwa ukuba singene nzulu kwiingqondo zethu kwaye sikhulise uluvo ngamanye amaxesha lokuqaqamba kwembali yomothuko wethu kunye iindlela zokuqhubeka nokuzenzakalisa. Lo msebenzi unokuba buhlungu ngendlela engathethekiyo, ubumangalisa ngokupheleleyo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ubonakalise ukungonwabi — abantu abaqhelekileyo kunqabile ukuba bafumane impiliso eguqulweyo eyenzeka kubantu abakhobokisayo. Ukuchacha kuthatha ixesha elide. Andiqinisekanga ukuba ukubuyela kwimeko yesiqhelo kusebenza njani kuye wonke umntu, kodwa ndiyazi ukuba ukubuyela umva kwexesha elide akunakuze kwenzeke kwiiveki nje ezimbalwa, kungasathethwa ke phambi kwekhamera yeTV.

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