Ngaphandle kweBotsch kunye neFemme: Isikhokelo saBaqalayo kwiSimbo seLesbian

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Eli bali lingaphezulu kweminyaka emi-5 ubudala.

Isazisi I-taxonomy ebanzi yefashoni yabasetyhini, ukusuka kwintombazana yaseWellesley ukuya kwi-goth yezempilo.
  • Ifoto ngu-Alexey Kuzma nge-Stocksy

    Ukonwaba kwangaphambili, okanye emva kokuzidla, ngokuxhomekeke kwindawo okhoyo. Njengoluntu lwasebukhosini, kulenyanga iphelileyo usibonisile ezona ndawo ziphantsi neziphezulu kakhulu esakha sazifumana, kwaye ukukhanya komnyama ojolise kusapho lwam lwesitabane kwandinyanzela ukuba ndibeke kwindawo yentloko yokucinga-enye indawo yam yokukhusela umntwana amaplanga ajikeleze isixeko esikhulu esidala, njengokwamkelwa ngobumnandi njengenye nje yewaka leminyaka elingaqhelekanga. Ndenze ukuba ndicinge malunga nokuba, njengama-lesbibi, mna kunye noontanga bam sijongwa njani luluntu.

    Bukela ngoku : Ngeempelaveki kwiQela eliKhulu lamaLesini eLizweni

    Ukuthetha ngocwangco, sifumana i-rap entle embi; Rhoqo, thina kunye neapos; siphinde sabiliswa kweyona nto ibalulekileyo yethu yebhanari yebhotile kunye neyesifazana. Kodwa njengelungu lobomi be-lesbian community, I & apos; ndichithe eyona minyaka yam intle ndijikelezwe ngabasetyhini abenza isazisi esikhulu kunye nesimbo. Kulo nyaka, emva kwesona sixeko sikhulu seKratshi saseNew York esakha sabonwa, ndaziva ndiphefumlelwe ukuba ndibeke ndawonye eyam indlela yokuthatha isikhokelo kwitaxonomic yokujonga isitayile samantombazana athandana namanye. Apha ngezantsi kukho amanye amaqelana abalulekileyo.

    Intombazana yaseWellesley
    Uqhekekile phakathi kokuvuma yena #sinaye okanye ahlukanise bonke abahlobo bakhe #bernout. Ukufezekisa oku kujongeka, baleka, musa ukuhamba, ukuya kwi Okunye iwebhusayithi kwaye uzifumanele Ikamva liBhinqa okanye Uthatha kanjani ukuba ucinga ukuba mna & apos; m ngqo ihempe kwangoko. (Imbeko ehloniphekileyo: yonke enye into esevenkileni.) Akukho ndlela yimbi yokuqinisekisa ukuba wonke umntu uyakwazi & ampos; ungumntu othandana namanye amabhinqa kwaye ayiyontombazana nje ebiza iqabane layo liqabane layo.

    Iimbaleki eziGuquliweyo zajika zaba nguMncedisi weFoto
    Eyona ntombazana inomdla kakhulu kweli qela, yena kunye ne-apos zabo benyanisekile kuhlobo lwentengiso njengoko enjalo kwintombi yakhe ye-Instagram yeveki. Inkangeleko yakhe kulo nyaka yigoth yezempilo. Ezi lycra ze-monochromatic kunye ne-mesh stylings zinayo yonke into: iingcambu zekona, isilayidi samachibi esilayidi, kunye neebhulukhwe ezimnyama zekotoni ezimnyama ezibekwe ngaphezulu kweedola eziyi-130. Unokufunyanwa ngokuchanekileyo kunxantathu we-VFILES, i-Nike Lab, kunye negama elingenagama lezemidlalo kwi-Broadway naseCanal. Akukho ndlela ingcono yokwenza zonke iintsana zazi ukuba indlela enqamlezileyo kwezemidlalo nasezidolophini nguwe.

    Intombazana yaseHouston
    Ngokwenene, yena & apos; s naphi na apho ingeyiyo i-New York okanye i-LA (okanye iToronto okanye iChicago). Yimoto yeklasikhi yee-dykes zale mihla. NjengeFord yakudala eyenziwe ngentsimbi eqinileyo, le gal yaseMelika ayenzi lula. I-flip flop ekhululekile kunye nobude obude obufutshane sisiseko esiqinileyo apha. Phantse nantoni na inokudityaniswa ngaphezulu: ipolo enemigca, itanki ye-H & M, okanye ityhubhu eqinileyo yomzobo kuqokelelo mall. UGoogle 'Pac Sun 2009' we-inspo.

    Imvumi
    Sukumbiza ngokuba ngumbhali-mculo-ngaphandle kokuba wenza kuqala (kwaye unakho). Yintombazana nje enesiginkci. Ngaphantsi kwelo Fender wena & ampos; uya kufumana iqhosha elithe kratya phantsi, ihempe yeligi yolutsha engenamikhono, ijeans ezimdaka, kunye nokuba ulwe neebhutsi okanye iiVan & apos. Anditsho ukuba isihlangu sixhomekeke kuhlobo lomculo awudlalayo, kodwa loo nto ayisiyonyani: Kusenokwenzeka ukuba unazo zombini, kwaye zona zichaphazela imood yakhe. Uhlala efumaneka kwi-beanie unyaka wonke.

    Umzobi
    Amaxesha amaninzi udidekile nomhlobo wakhe osenyongweni intombazana yaseWellesley- nangona yena & apos isigqibo sisavota e #bernownown kwi2016 kuba imfundo ifanele ukuba simahla, ndoda. Ukudityaniswa kwepeyinti kunokubonakala ngathi yeyona ilula ukuyiphumeza, kodwa kunzima kunokuba wena & apos; cinga ukukroba kwiivenkile ezivunyiweyo ezifumanekayo ukufumana ibhulukhwe yamadoda amakhulu kunye neepossi ezine-threadbare khaki enemibala yethoni.

    Abafazi abathandanayo abathandanayo
    Olu hlobo lomfazi luvela kulo lonke kodwa luhlala elizweni lamawaka esundu. Uyayithanda iringi entle yamaqhuma-okanye ishumi elinambini- kwaye ayizoyiki into yomqala omde ojingayo. Ihlala ididekile neqabane layo elithe ngqo le-Coachella Girl, i-LA lesbian ithambekele ngakumbi kwiminqwazi ebanzi kunye neebhatyi zesikhumba kuneziqhulo kunye nezithsaba zeentyatyambo. Abanye banokuthi yena kunye no-Lana del Rey ngee-jean ezingalunganga. Nawe, ungafezekisa ukujonga: Zama i-NastyGal, Zonke iiSanta, okanye webe nje kwikhabhathi yempahla leyo ukuncedileyo.

    Intombazana edibeneyo
    Inkosi ikusikelele, andinalwazi. Ndiyacinga ukuba le archetype inxiba ngokufanayo njengabafazi abathe tye-umsebenzi ojongeka njengeJ Crew iziseko zomsebenzi eziyindinisa ngabom kwaye ngethemba zikhulule ngokwaneleyo, kodwa azikhululekanga kakhulu ukuba zingahoywa, ukuze zithathwe ngokungathandekiyo ngamadoda asebenza nawo.