Ngaba Abasetyhini Banamaphupha Amanzi?

Ubomi Ngamazwi obulumko ka-Annie Lennox, ahlaziywa yi-moi, 'Amaphupha amanzi ayenziwa ngala, ndingubani ukuba ndingavumi?'
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    Kukho konke ukusilela kwenkqubo yemfundo yezesondo yase-Bhritane, omnye umngcipheko omkhulu kukungameli kakuhle kwepussy. Imizobo kunye neidayorama ezibutyeshele ngokupheleleyo ubukho beclitoris yinto enye; Okubi nangakumbi kukuvuka kwindawo emanzi ngexesha lokufikisa kwam kwaye ndicinga ukuba ndinomcimbi othile wokungakwazi ukuzibamba. Ewe, ingxaki yayingenguye, yayingoosolusapho- ngelixa amakhwenkwe ayefundiswa konke malunga nokukhutshwa ebusuku, amanenekazi ashiyeka ecinga ukuba asinazo kwaphela.

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    Kukho ukunqongophala okubonakalayo kophando kwi-orgasms yabasetyhini- into uKate, 28, kunye nomphuphi oqhelekileyo omanzi, ubhekisa 'kwisini ngokwesini'. Kudliwanondlebe lwango-2017 no-Banzi, intatheli yesayensi u-Angela Saini wachaza ukuba 'kukho & apos; sa lot of psychology evuthayo apha phandle' ebonisa ukuba abasetyhini 'abaziphethe kakubi' kunamadoda, ukuba abafazi babuthathaka kunamadoda- okanye, kule meko, ukuba Abasetyhini abanakuba namaphupha amanzi njengamadoda.

    Amaphupha emanzi acace gca phakathi kwamadoda, kuba ahlala ekhokelela kwimbewu enkulu yobudoda kwiibhulukhwe okanye kwiishiti zabo zokulala - kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba abasetyhini abanazo. NgokukaGqirha Sirin Lakhani, ugqirha wezithambiso kunye nengcali yezempilo I-Elite Aesthetics , nabani na banokuba ne-orgasm ebuthongweni babo.



    '[Amaphupha emvula] anokwenzeka emadodeni nakwabafazi bayo nayiphi na iminyaka, nangona ihlala iqala ngexesha lokufikisa kwaye yehle ngokuhamba kweminyaka,' ucacisa uLakhani. 'Ngokukodwa kwabasetyhini, ukulala kwe-REM kubangela ukwanda kokuhamba kwegazi kwindawo ye-clitoral, ekhokelela kwingqondo yakho ekuvuseleleni ngokwesondo, okunokuthi emva koko kubangele i-orgasm.'

    Utshintsho lomzimba lwenzeka xa umntu wasetyhini ebuthongweni ebuthongweni bakhe, kubandakanya ukonyuka kwentliziyo kunye nokuphefumla ukuze kungqinelane nokuhamba kwegazi kwilungu lobufazi. Kukwakho nezinto zangaphandle ezibakhuthazayo, njengokucinga ngabantu onomdla kubo kanye phambi kokuba uyeke, uxinzelelo okanye ukungqubana ebhedini, okanye ukulala phambi kwakho (ukuba iitits zakho azingeni endleleni). Oko kwathiwa, amaphupha amanzi amabhinqa awacacanga ngokucacileyo njengamadoda. Imfihlo yelungu lobufazi inokuthetha nje ukuba uvuselelwe ngokwesondo kwaye ayisiyiyo yokuba ufike kwi-orgasm, utshilo uLakhani.

    Ngokwazi ukuba iishiti zam zokulala ezimanzi kunye ne-pussy emanzi isenokungabi bubungqina obaneleyo bokuba abanye abantu basetyhini banamaphupha amanzi, ndaye ndakhangela indlela abanye abalandeli ababonisa ngayo ubuthongo babo ukuze babone ukuba ngaba akukho naziphi na ezinye izalathi zokungaqiniseki ngento jonga. USarah, 22, uthi uyazi ukuba & ampos wayenephupha elimanzi xa evuka engcangcazela, ephefumla kwaye ikakhulu kuloo post-orgasm 'umzimba wonke uziva'. U-Briar, oneminyaka engama-23, uthi ukukhutshwa kwabo ebusuku kwenza ukuba 'ukolula kusasa kube mnandi, kwaye ndiyifumana emva kokukhanya kwe-orgasm'.

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    Nangona ibinzana elithi 'iphupha elimanzi' lichaza ukuba une-orgasm ebuthongweni bakho, uKate no-Elle, bobabini abangama-26, bathi bahlala bevuka elunxwemeni. 'Amaphupha am manzi andikhathaleli ukuphela nge-orgasm-Ndihlala ndivuka ngeloxesha, ndikhathazekile,' ucacisa uKate. Benza uzive uvuseleleka, ngendlela onokuziva ngayo emva kokudlala kakuhle. Kungenxa yokuba abapheleli kwi-orgasm, andizukuyithetha loo nto & ampos; s hayi iphupha elimanzi. '

    Ukucinga ngesicatshulwa sikaKate & apos; kundenze ndazibuza ukuba ingaba kutheni singavumi malunga namaphupha amanzi emanzi ngendlela esenza ngayo malunga nabantu abanamandla ayisiyo nje umbono wokuba sithandabuzo ukuba pussies ayinakwenza into edlalwa ngabafazi, kodwa ukuba sizama ukuqonda i-orgasm yasebusuku kwimeko enomda kunye nesini somntu owalala ngesidoda. Nditsho nelizwi kumanzi unentsingiselo eyahluke ngokupheleleyo kule migaqo.

    Nokuba ngaba basetyhini 'bakhukula nje kwigumbi elingaphantsi' okanye ngokugcwala ngexesha lokulala, bobabini kufuneka bathathelwe ingqalelo njengephupha elimanzi, kuba, qagela ukuba yintoni, i-fanny ayikomisi nangayiphi na indlela. Ngapha koko, kuyinkolelo yam ukuba kufuneka silibuyisele ngokwethu igama elithi 'iphupha elimanzi' kwaye siphinde siyihlengahlengise nantoni na abafana abanayo 'njengephupha lobusuku'.

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